Spanksgiving 2009!

Take heart fellow vegans, small victories are still possible! This year, for the first time ever, we did away with the traditional mixed Spanksgiving (omni/vegan) “Separate but Equal” dinner in favor of something more communal. You know the meal–an entire vegan feast alongside an entire non-vegan feast, a multitude of dishes that are identical, save soymilk, Earth Balance, and veggie stock in lieu of milk, butter, and turkey stock.

Final plate 3The Spanksgiving Table

The weekend got off to a great start when we were greeted at the door with vegan oatmeal cookies, which Amy’s omni brother deemed “perfect”. How awesome is Amy’s mom? How awesome is it that Amy’s brother, in a single phrase, eliminated any further necessity to make non-vegan oatmeal cookies?

The vegan bonanza continued through to Spanksgiving too; Amy’s mom typically makes two dressings (you know, stuffing, but not in the turkey)–one with veggie stock and one with turkey/chicken stock. This year, she decided it was too much trouble and that no one would miss the meat stock, which they didn’t. She also traditionally makes both vegan and non-vegan mashed sweet potatoes with candied pecan topping. Though she did decide to make a non-vegan version as well at the last minute, Amy’s brother–our omni-acceptability-barometer–decreed the vegan version just as good, freeing Amy’s mom from any future obligation to make two versions.

Add to this homemade bread and steamed broccoli and cauliflower (there was a cheese sauce for the omnivores), and you have quite a shared meal! The omnivores had turkey and turkey gravy, while Amy and I had Spanksgiving Seitan Faux-Turkey and seitan gravy–though Amy’s dad had some of ours as well.

While it may not always be possible to convince your friends and family of your values, it is possible to achieve acceptance, to build respect, and to erode some of the barriers that keep us from meeting halfway and enjoying a meal together–which, history notwithstanding, is what Spanksgiving is all about.

Spanksgiving Menu:

  • Spanksgiving Seitan Faux-Turkey
  • Dressing
  • Mashed Potatoes
  • Steamed Broccoli & Cauliflower
  • Mashed Sweet Potatoes w/ Candied Pecan Topping
  • Homemade Rolls
  • Seitan Gravy
  • (Cranberry Sauce – Amy’s fambly ate this)
  • (Turkey – Amy’s fambly ate this)

2 comments ↓

#1 chow vegan on 12.02.09 at 1:48 am

Same sort of thing happened with my family – before there was two versions of everything but now the sides are vegan. People just need time to adjust and see that the vegan versions are just as tasty. 🙂

#2 Jake on 02.16.10 at 11:08 am

Oh so sad that I missed Spanksgiving with the Dick-Sack Clan. 🙁 Next year?

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